In the past, due to the lack of options (who has enough?), I've given women way too many chances.

I've been left on seen, lied to, lead on...etc.

What was my reasoning for behaving this way? Couldn't I see the "red flags"? Couldn't I read between the lines?

Of course, I could. But when you don't have much, you can't do much. So, I would keep pushing for dates and waiting despite being disrespected. Sometimes, I would just be curious to see how things unfold. 

Well, my conclusion is that once they have shown bad attitude towards you - it never gets better. It's wiser to just cut your losses right away. In fact, I have become extremely non-explanatory in my behavior. I no longer have tolerance.

E.g., I was talking to a woman on messenger yesterday. She left me on seen somewhere in the afternoon. Of course, she'd logged on many times since then. This morning I just blocked her without writing anything to her. Chances are she won't even notice. But it's not about her - it's about moving on without unnecessary investment.

A woman's behavior towards you rarely if ever improves over time. Unless you mutate into a model or become very rich, it only gets worse.

If she is willing to behave negatively now, she will do so increasingly in the future.

If your intuition is telling you that a woman has no interest in you, you are probably right.

Men have become too self-aware - analyzing every move you make and labeling it as alpha, beta...etc. 

Don't do this...or that in order to be "red pilled", MGTOW or whatever. Basically, you have 50 different movements telling you what to do. On top of that women come with their own set of nonsense rules explaining why "she rejected you".

I am here to tell you that it's all nonsense. That unhealthy self-awareness is an indication of heavy imbalance on the dating market and nothing else. 

The world is now filled with men shaping their characters in order to appeal to women while getting politically correct haircuts and tattoos to look more alpha for Instagram so that the next whore can leave them on seen for 10 days and humiliate them. 

Everything is pretty pathetic when you think about it.

I'm trying to get over my fear of directly approaching women. I've read that it is a good idea to look for signs of interest before approaching.  I'm wondering if that is at all practical however, especially in this age of distraction.  Do guys even wait for signs of interest like hair preening or eye contact before approaching? 

Edit: the scenario would be standing at a busy shopping area next to subway.

Even if their faces aren't shoved in a phone I feel like women don't even notice me half the time or for whatever reason don't see me. Also I have a smaller stature so I don't exactly stand out.

Treat a woman like a queen, and she will treat you like a fan (disposable, retard invisible to her).

Treat her like she deserves....and she will block you.

I believe you should try make yourself as attractive as possible but when even that not enough remember this .

love yourself on deeper level 

been disciplined today gave them evidence still they diss everything the people with the power will all ways decided on the rules no matter what . might win with HR but even still if they can company will run all  over you because they have the power. no matter what evidence your power you have, your slave fuck work, fuck the  company they dont care. I stand  my ground but you shouldn't  have to fight back . worker rights they don't  care  . fuck this diplopia society your slave not Citizen. 

I don't  even say I am worker . worse part we submit to it all

Calum Von Moger, Eddie Hall, Larry Wheels all had biceps tear recently. Lol. What’s going on? They must’ve been using the same high quality stack that got them there.

in your own words what does true love mean to you . can you describe it !

ill go first dont know tbh never fallen in love only been obsessive.

Curious if someone can break this down for me because I may either be confused, overthinking, etc.. 

I'm trying to figure out if there's any real reason to care about time between sets vs just doing the next set when I'm breathing normal again/feel rested/etc... Also curious about intensity...

If I do a max effort 12 rep movement (whether it's compound, isolation/etc), and my goal is 3 sets of 12... If I try to rush my next set before I'm ready, i may only get 9, and then only 6-7 if I stick with timing it. 

Some say not do "go to failure" and maybe this is where I"m going wrong.. but, if I use a lighter weight, I may be able to hit 12 reps 3 times in a shorter amount of time, but then where do you go from here?  "Progressive overload" says I should eventually increase the weight (or maybe do the 3 sets of 12 faster... 4th set?).. either way, at some point I end in a situation where that 90 or 120 second rest isn't enough for my 2nd set to be as effective. So when I do so, I end up taking longer to hit 12 reps 3 times at higher weight, or the 2nd and 3rd sets suffer when timing between sets.    

Note: I don't do 3x12 for everything but wanted to use it as an example.

pick hairstyle put it on tinder see how many matches  and dates if get enough try another hairstyle  basically which ever hairstyle get's most suite you best .

but at the end of day pick one that you like you don't own her anything .