Dating advice

[Jonesy]

We can all agree that the modern dating game is strictly in favour of the female. But what can we do? I thought it would be good to have a thread where the natties share advice on what is best to do when trying to secure love in a world where slayers and alpha chads seem to have free reign.

Do we have a chance at all? Or is the modern dating game simply a futile task in frustration?

[Plato]

We can all agree that the modern dating game is strictly in favour of the female. But what can we do? I thought it would be good to have a thread where the natties share advice on what is best to do when trying to secure love in a world where slayers and alpha chads seem to have free reign.

Do we have a chance at all? Or is the modern dating game simply a futile task in frustration?

I think there people who think like us as in who know how the system works and chose not to play the game women and men . The problem is most people are brain washed . philosophy has saved me into being someone who think for them self . all you can do is work on looks and try your best .

[khrazz]

I made a thread about it. Check it out

https://nattyornotforum.com/showthread.php?tid=54

[Plato]

I made a thread about it. Check it out

https://nattyornotforum.com/showthread.php?tid=54

ok will do

[TruthSeeker]

We can all agree that the modern dating game is strictly in favour of the female. But what can we do? I thought it would be good to have a thread where the natties share advice on what is best to do when trying to secure love in a world where slayers and alpha chads seem to have free reign.

Do we have a chance at all? Or is the modern dating game simply a futile task in frustration?

Dating is basically a modern day scam that can operate well only in a consumer based society. 

Here's how things work.

Humanoids live to buy things. When you need something, you start searching for it and buy the best option. Nowadays love is operating on the same principle. Women expect to enter the pool and grab a finished product. Dating is designed to accomplish this task. It's a selection/filtering process meant to give you the best item for your money. 

In reality, however, this fails because love is not something you buy. It is something you BUILD. 

But most women are too unaware and lazy to comprehend this concept and keep fishing. The minute they find a flaw in a guy they are rather eager to replace him, hoping that a new product will satisfy their desire in a more optimal way.

And they continue to date and date until age starts ticking, and they are forced to settle. Hence why most women build families in their 30s and then divorce their husbands (they keep looking...)

In the past, this was unthinkable. A woman not married by 25 or so was considered a lost cause. Today, 25 y.o. women are wondering what kind of long-board to buy for their park adventures. In short, they are not mature. 

Men on the other hand do not have much of a choice. Most men grow to hate dating because they are tired of being tested and treated like garbage by average women who are simply abusing their modern day privileges.

Never forget that ALL women have the same type - TALL, RICH, HANDSOME. 

This is the type of EVERY woman. Those who deny it are lying.

Ultimately, dating has become that - the female search for the tall, rich and handsome men. The average man does not satisfy those criteria and is literally abused by the women he tries to secure for that rather than some peripheral behavior.

All those strategies that you are filling your heads with are nonsense. 

She is not rejecting you because you said the wrong joke or because you smile from the wrong angle. She is not rejecting you because you did or did not bring her flowers. She is not rejecting you because you don't have a sense of humor. She is not rejecting you because you are waiting too little or too long between your texts.

She is rejecting you because she is looking for a taller, richer and more handsome male specimen. 

This is the damn truth. You can spend your life "improving" and reading alpha diaries, but in the end, you will realize how futile all this is.

[Plato]

We can all agree that the modern dating game is strictly in favour of the female. But what can we do? I thought it would be good to have a thread where the natties share advice on what is best to do when trying to secure love in a world where slayers and alpha chads seem to have free reign.

Do we have a chance at all? Or is the modern dating game simply a futile task in frustration?

Dating is basically a modern day scam that can operate well only in a consumer based society. 

Here's how things work.

Humanoids live to buy things. When you need something, you start searching for it and buy the best option. Nowadays love is operating on the same principle. Women expect to enter the pool and grab a finished product. Dating is designed to accomplish this task. It's a selection/filtering process meant to give you the best item for your money. 

In reality, however, this fails because love is not something you buy. It is something you BUILD. 

But most women are too unaware and lazy to comprehend this concept and keep fishing. The minute they find a flaw in a guy they are rather eager to replace him, hoping that a new product will satisfy their desire in a more optimal way.

And they continue to date and date until age starts ticking, and they are forced to settle. Hence why most women build families in their 30s and then divorce their husbands (they keep looking...)

In the past, this was unthinkable. A woman not married by 25 or so was considered a lost cause. Today, 25 y.o. women are wondering what kind of long-board to buy for their park adventures. In short, they are not mature. 

Men on the other hand do not have much of a choice. Most men grow to hate dating because they are tired of being tested and treated like garbage by average women who are simply abusing their modern day privileges.

Never forget that ALL women have the same type - TALL, RICH, HANDSOME. 

This is the type of EVERY woman. Those who deny it are lying.

Ultimately, dating has become that - the female search for the tall, rich and handsome men. The average man does not satisfy those criteria and is literally abused by the women he tries to secure for that rather than some peripheral behavior.

All those strategies that you are filling your heads with are nonsense. 

She is not rejecting you because you said the wrong joke or because you smile from the wrong angle. She is not rejecting you because you did or did not bring her flowers. She is not rejecting you because you don't have a sense of humor. She is not rejecting you because you are waiting too little or too long between your texts.

She is rejecting you because she is looking for a taller, richer and more handsome male specimen. 

This is the damn truth. You can spend your life "improving" and reading alpha diaries, but in the end, you will realize how futile all this is.

I agree. However men are guilty of this too. I once dropped a girl because I thought she was getting too fat, even though her personality was reasonable. 

I suppose its in our nature to always want the best for ourselves. However that doesn't mean utter betrayel by divorcing your wife or husband of 20 years just because you found someone "better". The lack of any moral ground has led to this mentality of seeking self gratification all day with no reasonable explanation required besides "I just felt like it".

One thing that bugs me is that these modern dating and pick-up artist coaches who seem to align themselves with "red pill, alpha, beta, INCEL" phrases and who seem to run rampant on YouTube with all their sheep (hoping to finally find the cure for their sexless lives. Attracting women it seems is similar to muscle gains in terms of the online methods and indoctrination) basically push this false ideology that in the "caveman" time, the true "alphas" would impregnate all the women in the tribe and pass on their genes, while all the "betas" would stand by and gather berries. 

This is false because in the past (before feminism, try to imagine):

If a man impregnated a women, and then proceded to leave her and impregnate another, and then do the same to her. She and her child would of died. Why? Because they would of needed the man for protection. Obviously one "alpha" male can't hunt for and protect all 30 families he's created. Let me guess, the "beta" males would do it on his behalf (because they were such "nice" guys). 

So quite clearly the only way human beings have survived and multiplied has been though the family unit. One man for one women, for one lifetime as long as they are both healthy. Obviously the real men and women are the ones who build a family and protect and strengthen it. Not the fake "alpha" manhores and sluts of today, that would clearly have not passed on their genes if similar behaviours was present in the past.

Something to ponder on.

its true but some people are section to the rule there normal isolated by Society through.

[Navigator]

Just be yourself on your first date and look decent, but not fancy (neat hair, face, teeth, hands and clothes)
You will be easily busted if you are pretending to be someone who you aren't unless you are very good liar
And flirt! Use every appropriate moment to make body contact and try to put sexual content in a conversation but in a nice, joking way (If you are to polite and nice you will end up in a friendzone!)
That's it basically