(07-16-2019, 11:18 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: I am starting to think that tinder isn't practically working even for those 2%. Sure, they can get many women and easily have sex with them on the first date, but even those elite 2% know that those women would easily cheat on them. Basically, hypergamy has reached a point where even super high tier men are not protected from failure, cheating and overall nasty vibe of dishonesty and constant testing, nagging...etc.
I have used tinder for years and yet have never been on a date with a woman that I would consider a keeper in any form or shape.
To be fair, they are not always rejecting you. Some of those women are just afraid to reciprocate while others are already taken and/or in a bad mood. But yes - if you were a model, they would be more polite and respectful.
I've had women raise their hand pretending to slap me during approaches. And this is after a compliment...hahaha.
I understand you.
Back in my early to mid 20s, I was in a hardcore monk mode.
It's hard not to be exhausted from the dating game. The constant games and criticism from both, men and women, get to you. In the end, you ask yourself - why am I doing this to myself?
Exaclty, those games were the biggest contributer to my intolerance for dating. Texting games from women in particular.
My worst reaction to a cold approach was when after approaching she said "do I know you?" I said "no", then she said "why are you talking to me then", in a real bitch way.
My friends worst was before he even said hello she said "I can smell the desperation on this one" to her friend.
I do understand that they are not always rejecting me, but, I also know subconsciously they are because of something they don't like about me. Its not just because they have a boyfriend.
A example, I'm reading this book by Brian Head Welch called Save Me From Myself. Brian is the lead guitarist in the metal band Korn. Frequently in their shows they would have their bodygaurds go out into the audience just to find attractive woman to join the band back stage.
When asked if they would like to 'party' with the band, some would ask if they could bring their boyfriends, of course the bodyguard would say, only girls allowed, to which most of those girls would just leave their boyfriends right their just to go 'party' with the band backstage.
I once went out with a tinder date for about a month, during that time she showed me about 3 or 4 messages from other guys who were trying to go on a date with her. She wasn't an elite woman. She was very average and some would say below average (me too which is why I ended it). Yet she had options, more than I had at the time, even now. The most I ever had at once was two. So if average/below average women have multiple options it must be scary to think what elite women have in terms of options.