03-26-2019, 01:38 AM
(This post was last modified: 03-26-2019, 10:55 AM by RedPillOverdose.)
Speaking of paying for sex, drug experiences, “working on thyself” til one has acquired resources and a highfalutin position at age 30, and going one’s own way: you know who this works for? Men with options! No one else!
Let’s go down the list. Party-hardy men with a pick of the litter and a robust social life can get away with doing drugs (until and if the grim reaper or health problems grab a whole hold of them) because it is one more high in a series of highs. And when they come down… there is still a woman (or women) there to validate his attractiveness and worthiness as a man. An incel doing drugs? Good luck coming down from a high in your lonely bed on a Sunday morning. He’s one again reminded that he’s all alone.
Paying for sex? Who does this work for in a sense? Men who can get laid by women of their own volition but, like the above example, can go for a cheap thrill once in awhile in a pool of other thrills, one of those being getting laid by a woman who actually wants to bed down with him. I knew some men who attracted many women who would go to whores once in awhile. It was simply a fun night on the town for them with their boys, men who were also of their same sexual market value. It was for shits and giggles, and less “work for the night”. An incel getting laid by a whore? Once again, he has to wake up the next morning, knowing he paid for a woman to have sex with him, all by his lonesome. It’s not a thrill for him; it’s an act of desperation.
A man going his own way (MGTOW). Who does this “work” for? Who have I seen this “work” for? Men with options, the sort of men who can simply go in and out of MGTOW as they please. Such men are wanted by women anyway, and usually have options, see women as objects, and have a cold streak to them. They are likely highly ambitious and high earning in their professions. They have sexual market power. It is easy for them to pull this off, live life on their own terms, and "work towards their goals”, because there are usually women orbiting around them. They aren’t the orbiters! They’re the ones calling the shots in the romantic and sexual dynamic. For them, if a woman doesn’t want to get on board with their 60-plus hour work weeks and dare devil hobbies and partying, then they can scram! See the power of choice (incels have none).
Working on goals. Oh yes, we’ll see just how one feels going from sixteen to 30 without women. Did I mention that lack of women can make men infuriated, perhaps more than anything else. Try dealing with that emotion for about fifteen years or so, and see if goal attainment can counter that, especially when in social scenarios amongst other men with women. For most men, unless they are callous and made of stone or what they're doing is so special (it likely isn't), being lonely will make them a worn out piece of meat by the they're in their 30s. Did I mention when being alone that being alone amongst men with women is one of the shittiest feelings there is? Sorry to break it to everyone. Most men won’t be that darn attractive at 30 with no experience with women, even if they’re engineers or doctors. Attraction to women generally has to be established early in life! Perhaps I’ll log into this site ten years from now, or any other in which incels or socially disgruntled men lurk and see if goal attainment will make up for lack of a woman.
I don’t see this in antagonism to Hans or anyone. Hans seems like a good guy, as is everyone else. This is just my take on it.
Let’s go down the list. Party-hardy men with a pick of the litter and a robust social life can get away with doing drugs (until and if the grim reaper or health problems grab a whole hold of them) because it is one more high in a series of highs. And when they come down… there is still a woman (or women) there to validate his attractiveness and worthiness as a man. An incel doing drugs? Good luck coming down from a high in your lonely bed on a Sunday morning. He’s one again reminded that he’s all alone.
Paying for sex? Who does this work for in a sense? Men who can get laid by women of their own volition but, like the above example, can go for a cheap thrill once in awhile in a pool of other thrills, one of those being getting laid by a woman who actually wants to bed down with him. I knew some men who attracted many women who would go to whores once in awhile. It was simply a fun night on the town for them with their boys, men who were also of their same sexual market value. It was for shits and giggles, and less “work for the night”. An incel getting laid by a whore? Once again, he has to wake up the next morning, knowing he paid for a woman to have sex with him, all by his lonesome. It’s not a thrill for him; it’s an act of desperation.
A man going his own way (MGTOW). Who does this “work” for? Who have I seen this “work” for? Men with options, the sort of men who can simply go in and out of MGTOW as they please. Such men are wanted by women anyway, and usually have options, see women as objects, and have a cold streak to them. They are likely highly ambitious and high earning in their professions. They have sexual market power. It is easy for them to pull this off, live life on their own terms, and "work towards their goals”, because there are usually women orbiting around them. They aren’t the orbiters! They’re the ones calling the shots in the romantic and sexual dynamic. For them, if a woman doesn’t want to get on board with their 60-plus hour work weeks and dare devil hobbies and partying, then they can scram! See the power of choice (incels have none).
Working on goals. Oh yes, we’ll see just how one feels going from sixteen to 30 without women. Did I mention that lack of women can make men infuriated, perhaps more than anything else. Try dealing with that emotion for about fifteen years or so, and see if goal attainment can counter that, especially when in social scenarios amongst other men with women. For most men, unless they are callous and made of stone or what they're doing is so special (it likely isn't), being lonely will make them a worn out piece of meat by the they're in their 30s. Did I mention when being alone that being alone amongst men with women is one of the shittiest feelings there is? Sorry to break it to everyone. Most men won’t be that darn attractive at 30 with no experience with women, even if they’re engineers or doctors. Attraction to women generally has to be established early in life! Perhaps I’ll log into this site ten years from now, or any other in which incels or socially disgruntled men lurk and see if goal attainment will make up for lack of a woman.
I don’t see this in antagonism to Hans or anyone. Hans seems like a good guy, as is everyone else. This is just my take on it.