(03-19-2019, 09:31 PM)RedPillOverdose Wrote: Yes, this is true. But many men are realistic. They know they’re not handsome or rich, do they get someone who matches them, as they should!
Unattractive men hitting on very pretty women make themselves look desperate and silly!
And as said several times, many men these days are hypergamous. Porn, social media, advertising, and film, and TV have warped their brain and they desire or think they have a shot with gorgeous women. Most don’t. So instead of being ridiculous, they go for a woman who matches them. The vast majority of couples are of ordinary men with ordinary women. And there’s far more to marriage than physical attraction and sex. That whole strongman narrative, “I’ll die alone” will be painful in reality.
Should I ever encounter a man without a girlfriend/wife who tells me that the reason why he's single is because he cannot get the girls he wants but he also doesn't want the girls he could get, I would clap him on his shoulders for being that honest, confident, and respectful. As long as he's working towards his goals I would find that attitude admirable.
In my opinion, unless a man wants to have a child (hopefully at the age of 30+), he has no business spending his precious time, energy, and money with a woman he doesn't find attractive.
The most valuable advice I could give a younger version of myself (say at 18y) would be to work on your career (money) and looks (do the best you can; definitely doable for most guys), become more social (find opportunity to spend some time with people, but don't lose focus; becoming easy with people is one of the most useful skills you can acquire), and finally, just take the damn pain (if you play it right, that 18-28y period will be the worst period in your life, so fail often, learn, and struggle through).
Don't consider to have a serious relationship (something you're willing to invest into) until you're mid 30 or so.