02-26-2019, 01:45 AM
(02-25-2019, 03:19 AM)locutus24 Wrote: Actually I wasn't aware that the name dating didn't exist back in your time. Was it just called courting?
Every date I've been on was anxiety inducing and stressful. My body always felt tight and was relieved once I got to leave. Coffee dates are terrible. One of the worst inventions of the modern era. Coffee should only be consumed at home using a good old coffee dripper while doing morning errands at home. Cafes can go grind in hell.
That sounds like Tinder and OKC. I can't even compete on there. I actually do believe that either one has to be male model or a steroid user to even stand a chance on these apps. But unfortunately I also don't feel women want to be approached in real life either. At my university female students seem to be content if not fond with me being far away.
It's not just them either. I get the cold shoulder from almost anyone on campus. And I am guessing it must be me that's the issue. One thought I've considered is I'm sociopathic by nature and I know I have deep hatred that goes as deep as the bones for people here. People might sense it at an unconscious level. It makes sense cause I have a history of a few violent crimes and misconduct when I was a teenager.
I am not seeking companionship with any women. My plan is to get sex whenever possible. I haven't come across any "normal" women. I actually wasn't aware any existed anymore.
I'm glad you will help your son find a better path in finding his companion. I hope that happens for him. In fact, I hope the next generation or perhaps the next of men find a better time in finding women.
I'm 39 years old. But I know how it was back in the old day, and from living around other ethnicities for nearly my entire life, I know that many of them do not bother it. Hence why their men have no problem finding a mate! It only takes common sense to see that "liberation", "freedom", and the sexual revolution did not result in men having more access to sex! What it did was cause an abundance of women for top-dog men to choose from while being unable to marry them all, and in turn, ambitious, hypergamous women thinking that "men are dogs" simply because such men can't commit to all the women who want to date up!
Then towards the middle and bottom of the dating totem pole, that is, men with modest means and connections and/or attractiveness, were assed out, and still are in some ways, though many still have managed to marry and form families.
Step outside of yourself and reflect on this statement: "I am not seeking companionship with any women. My plan is to get sex whenever possible."
Does this sound normal or healthy to you? Why do you not want female companionship and only to have women to solely have sex with? I can't predict the future, but I can only see this backfiring on you.
I do not say this in anyway to ridicule you. That is not my aim. But let's face it. If you are some guy admitting people give you the cold shoulder, you are in no position to even expect women bedding you down so easily. If i have it correct, you are attending school on a large campus (I have an idea of which school from the clues provided here, but I will not even mention) in a crowded, diverse city, for a difficult major. Plus you are psychologically complicated and intelligent. Let's get real here: you are likely more suitable to just finding a woman who fits you than to be some guy having sex with an assortment of women.
PS: I don't blame you for hating many people in NYC. What's there to like about them?

