(02-15-2019, 07:11 AM)Brett Wrote: She probably would. I read somewhere that a large percentile of women have a fantasy about being 'raped' according to some study. Not sure how accurate that is though.
I'm definitely not in the position to make a scientifically accurate study on that matter but I've had a few girlfriends in my life. Most of them liked something that a kid not accustomed to today's Internet porn would consider 'rough sex'. It was shocking for me on first encounter, but now, with a more relaxed view on things in life, that behavior seems pretty normal and natural to me. One woman, a lawyer (yeah, I know ...), even said upfront that she likes to be dominated in bed (but only in bed, as she emphasized). Also some of my buddies who look more attractive than me (read as: had more and better looking girls) could confirm that observation.
Unless you are a complete pervert, a girl likes what you like, but in the opposite role. So while you want to dominate, she wants to submit. Really strange, isn't it? But it makes perfect sense to me now considering our biological reproduction. Man and woman cannot have the same role during sex since that would be like two electrons pushing themselves off. They cannot be both dominant or both submissive. Her role must complement his role, like an electron attracted to a proton. Since a straight male usually prefers the dominant role, a female prefers the submissive role even if she is an "empowered you go girl" outside the bed. I know, you don't watch porn but if you did you would recognize that very same pattern: the man dominating the woman, often in ridiculous, exaggerated ways.
Now, that "rape" thing: Obviously, no woman wants to be forced to sexual acts against her will (that would be a real rape). But when she fantasizes about "rape" (think of "Fifty Shades of Grey" and stuff like that), then what she really means is that she wants to be sexually dominated, willingly, as described above.
And then there is the third "rape", when a woman abuses that term to get some attention by crashing the reputation of some creepy kid who just tried to touch her (after having read on some alpha sucker's blog how effective touching a girl supposedly was).
One word, three meanings. Never underestimate the female mind. ;)