My Opinion on the MGTOW Movement

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The general concept of MGTOW makes perfect sense to me, especially now when I have had my large share of female hostility and rejection. I have been treated bad by many women. They have wasted my time, lied to me, manipulated me...etc. I learned a lot, but at the same time, I lost resources - mainly time and energy. I will never get them back. The regrets, and the metallic taste in my mouth will stay. I will never be able to love a woman. They successfully broke that in me.

For someone in my position, MGTOW's ideology makes a lot of sense. Yet I don't fully embrace it.

MGTOW logically eliminates a variable (women) which takes too much without giving back almost anything to the average person. If women were a business idea, giving up on them would be a logical step. "Cut your losses."

But women are not a business idea.

You were designed biologically to want them. You would never see a lion go MGTOW. Giving up on women is like choosing your gender - you can't really do it. The desire will always be there. It's 100% unnatural for a man NOT to want a woman.

This is why MGTOW is not for  young individuals - at least not in its extreme form. MGTOW makes fun of feminists who spend their best years chasing a meaningless career and yet many young men use MGTOW as an excuse to waste precious time on nonsense dopamine ventures too.

However, MGTOW can be a great choice for a divorced man with children.

This individual has already reproduced and has had his natural need for a woman satisfied. If this was me, I would probably go full-blown MGTOW without carrying at all. I would focus my energy on my children and myself.

Honestly, I don't think MGTOW is the solution. It can be a temporary medicine that you take, but in the long-term, something else is in order.

MGTOW has often accurately been renamed MSTOW, Men Sent Their Own Way. 

I believe there are some men who indeed, after being burned or widowed or taken to the cleaners, or some combination of the aforesaid, legitimately have decided that they want nothing to do with relationships altogether, perhaps permanently. 

But I also believe for the vast majority of men who boast they are some oh-so-disciplined Spartan who can overcome a biological drive for sex and a companion and are the ones doing the rejecting of women are full of crap! 

And ever notice that every other MGTOW hot shot on You Tube is (supposedly) industrious, high earning, highly experienced, and socially adapted but still chooses to reject the hordes of women begging to go out with them!   Yeah, sure, we are supposed to believe it is they doing the rejecting. 

They also claim that each and every other happily married man with kids is deep down miserable because he is truly a beta, pushover, sap, and wimp. Again, this is a cope in which one lashes out on those who have what he truly wants to have. 

What nearly all sane men truly understand is that there's no glory in being womanless. None! They can say they are fine with being alone (lonely, that is), but there are still few things in this world that can make  a man angrier than being womanless--for real! Being sexually frustrated, lonely, showing up to events alone, loveless, and in the end, knowing there isn't  a woman out there who who loved them enough to want to bear one's chilren--men who make believe they are immune to this, sorry, I am not buying it!

MGTOW is a cope for most who have been rejected by women or burned by the current riff between the sexes and nightmare dating scene. 

I thank whatever deity is out there I am happily married with a beautiful kid these days, another on the way.