01-17-2019, 05:32 PM
(01-17-2019, 01:57 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote:It great that you share your experiences and save us time. It is true - relationship with the least dating were the "happiest" while the ones that dated for long time - are still dating with no results.(01-17-2019, 09:35 AM)Navigator Wrote: When I always strived to have a girlfriend (dating, social network dating, nigthlife and similar) I have never had a girlfriend haha
All my girlfriends just happen and it was smooth and natural
But if you want this to happen you have to socialize with people - just find a group of people with similar interest and some activity that you like (fitness, music, dancing, reading...anything) and you will find someone sooner or later through meetings, house parties, birthdays etc
Apparently, this method does not work for everyone. If it did, the so-called dating market would be much smaller.
(01-17-2019, 10:47 AM)Hans Wrote:(01-17-2019, 09:35 AM)Navigator Wrote: When I always strived to have a girlfriend (dating, social network dating, nigthlife and similar) I have never had a girlfriend haha
All my girlfriends just happen and it was smooth and natural
Same here. They sense your neediness a mile away ... and it drives them off.
Neediness?
The truth about neediness is painful, bro. It scares them because it would require commitment on their part. And they don't want that. They want only the benefits without the responsibilities.
Women today are conditioned to want a very specific type of male. This makes the rest of the males "needy" due to the scarcity effect.
If men had a healthy amount of options, we would not be needy.