The Busy Bitch

[Plato]

There are many techniques, but if we are honest with ourselves, we can always feel if somebody's level of interest is high or not.

Not even that I hade girls with high interest then on the day flake .

[TruthSeeker]

Not even that I hade girls with high interest then on the day flake .

They can change their mind at any second.

And the whole time, you don't know where you stand. Kept in the dark wondering. 

Modern dating dynamics are just so dumb.

[Plato]

They can change their mind at any second.

And the whole time, you don't know where you stand. Kept in the dark wondering. 

Modern dating dynamics are just so dumb.

Who knows what truly goes on in another human mind we can get feel  if were luck.

[Rickley]

Ironically, I noticed the same too. My father also behaved like a pig. I was 12 when he started running away from the family. He would got out early and would return late. Sometimes he won't even come home. He won't pick up his phone the entire day. We never new where he was. I would hear my mother cry the entire night. 

He never bought her anything for her birthday either. The same for my birthdays. I received only one present from him in my entire life. 

And yet they are still together, although my mother wanted to divorce him at one point.

Women are indeed attracted to some nonsense like that.

When they were a new couple (they married after a month or two of dating), they went for a short trip and had a fight. My father left her in the town they were completely alone without telling her where he was going. 

But none of this was planned. It's just who he is.

I notice that women want men with rock hard emotions. My parents are married for 32 years and part of that reason is that whenever my mom nags or blames my dad for some shit he just ignores it. My dad barely gave my mom anything and can't even remember the date of their wedding anniversary.

[Plato]

Yeah my father has done some shocking things too. He has always struggled to control his temper and even though he was not a abusive father he used to fight with my mom almost every day when I was growing up.

He is a bit of a emotional abuser though. He has been very mean to my mom. She is not an angel though either but she made her choices in life as we all do.

But it was a major red pill for me to see that after all the talk has died down women still seem to go for the - assholes, bullies, bad boys etc.

Our own mothers are proof of it.

But I can see the logic they would have used. For example my father has never had a problem standing up for me in my schooling career. Whenever I was being picked on by certain teachers in my primary school he would stand up for me and not let them just think they the bees knees just because they have some power. He also always stands up for himself and has never had a problem raising his voice.

Women find these traits attractive. But alot of my anxiety came from him. I have never really told him this. I have overcome my anxiety mostly but the thing with fear is - it always remains. My mom also was/is a control freak and also a very fearful person (similiar to him) so she also made me a very anxious boy growing up. I think I mentioned this before but I was so shy around girls in my teens and pre-teens.

But ya, I wonder if our parents even know how their own decisions and actions mold their children. 

One memory that will never leave my brain is the day when two police officers came to our house to remove my father.

One of the things I will never forget is my father asking me whether I like my mother. Then he told her when she was fighting with him that her son doesn't like her. I was only about 6 at the time if I recall but I heard him tell her that and then afterwards she came to me and asked if what he said was true.

My dad the same I have my dad's temper in me and my mum soft heart caring  nature.  Am mix of my mum and dad

[RedPillOverdose]

Truth: what is your end goal? You are obviously attractive enough to get many dates with women. Yes, many modern day women are nuts. Perhaps you’re not screening intelligently enough? When I was single, after some time, I could tell if a woman was full of shit from one conversation.

What is your goal? Just a girlfriend? To be a man whore? Eventual marriage and family?

[TruthSeeker]

Truth: what is your end goal? You are obviously attractive enough to get many dates with women. Yes, many modern day women are nuts. Perhaps you’re not screening intelligently enough? When I was single, after some time, I could tell if a woman was full of shit from one conversation.

What is your goal? Just a girlfriend? To be a man whore? Eventual marriage and family?

I've gotten many dates but most of them were not with the greatest women ever. And all of the dates have been the result of hard effort on my part. Women don't come to me.

My end goal is or maybe was to find a lifetime partner.