07-20-2019, 05:06 AM
(This post was last modified: 07-20-2019, 05:07 AM by TruthSeeker.)
In the past, due to the lack of options (who has enough?), I've given women way too many chances.
I've been left on seen, lied to, lead on...etc.
What was my reasoning for behaving this way? Couldn't I see the "red flags"? Couldn't I read between the lines?
Of course, I could. But when you don't have much, you can't do much. So, I would keep pushing for dates and waiting despite being disrespected. Sometimes, I would just be curious to see how things unfold.
Well, my conclusion is that once they have shown bad attitude towards you - it never gets better. It's wiser to just cut your losses right away. In fact, I have become extremely non-explanatory in my behavior. I no longer have tolerance.
E.g., I was talking to a woman on messenger yesterday. She left me on seen somewhere in the afternoon. Of course, she'd logged on many times since then. This morning I just blocked her without writing anything to her. Chances are she won't even notice. But it's not about her - it's about moving on without unnecessary investment.
A woman's behavior towards you rarely if ever improves over time. Unless you mutate into a model or become very rich, it only gets worse.
If she is willing to behave negatively now, she will do so increasingly in the future.
If your intuition is telling you that a woman has no interest in you, you are probably right.
I've been left on seen, lied to, lead on...etc.
What was my reasoning for behaving this way? Couldn't I see the "red flags"? Couldn't I read between the lines?
Of course, I could. But when you don't have much, you can't do much. So, I would keep pushing for dates and waiting despite being disrespected. Sometimes, I would just be curious to see how things unfold.
Well, my conclusion is that once they have shown bad attitude towards you - it never gets better. It's wiser to just cut your losses right away. In fact, I have become extremely non-explanatory in my behavior. I no longer have tolerance.
E.g., I was talking to a woman on messenger yesterday. She left me on seen somewhere in the afternoon. Of course, she'd logged on many times since then. This morning I just blocked her without writing anything to her. Chances are she won't even notice. But it's not about her - it's about moving on without unnecessary investment.
A woman's behavior towards you rarely if ever improves over time. Unless you mutate into a model or become very rich, it only gets worse.
If she is willing to behave negatively now, she will do so increasingly in the future.
If your intuition is telling you that a woman has no interest in you, you are probably right.
