04-16-2019, 08:12 PM
(This post was last modified: 04-16-2019, 08:12 PM by TruthSeeker.)
I am about to present a strategy that has been partially beta tested by me. I don't have the required stamina to keep doing this so I guess I will never give it 100%.
Anyway, here it is.
Don't Ask For Her Number
Summary. The seduction experts always press you to close with a number. "Get her number, bro."
A few times, I decided to skip that and simply tried to schedule a date during the approach. Why? Because I wanted to eliminate texting. Once you take the convo to the phone, you have everything to lose and nothing to gain. Texting does not build attraction - it either preserves it or kills it. Unless she discovers through your social media that you are a high status male, you have nothing to gain from taking the conversation there.
So, just don't ask for her number and schedule a date on the spot.
Benefits
- you are showing outcome independence - by dropping all contact data, you are essentially creating ONE opportunity only. It's either this or nothing. She either comes or not. This is it. No sending of stupid memes, pointless texts...etc. And certainly no social media stalking.
- you are asking her out right away - ultra-directness.
- she will have to reject you or accept you in your presence - she can't hide behind the phone
- you are very likely to remove all girls with low interest from the equation
FAQ
Q: Bro, what if she wants to come but fails to do so due to an accident of some sort?
A: Bro, I have been on more dates that I can count at this point. I have never stood anyone up and have always been on time (no more than 3-5 minutes late) except one single time - it was winter and the whole city was blocked by snow. I took me 30 minutes more to get there.
Chances are she did not come because she didn't want to. Sure, something may have happened, but the likelihood is too small.
Q: Bro, what if she doesn't come precisely because you don't have her contact and cannot hold her accountable?
A: If she doesn't come, it's because she didn't want to. It's as simple as that. Not having your number does not stimulate her to flake. It's all about attraction.
Q: Bro, what if she needs time to figure out when she is free?
A: She doesn't. Does she need five hours to figure out her next appointment at the dentist? No. She gives an hour and a date to the nurse or the dentist right away, and the next session is scheduled. No dentist is waiting more than a few minutes for a patient to figure out when the next appointment will be. It's all about priorities.
I am sick and tired of people rationalizing female behavior with distractions.
Listen, they are not distracted. They see all your messages no more than 3 hours after you send them (exception would be vacations ABROAD). They know when they are free and can schedule a date in a few days even if they have five exams that same week. Meeting someone for 30-60 minutes is always possible if there's desire.
Remember - excuses to meet you = she doesn't like you enough.
Anyway, here it is.
Don't Ask For Her Number
Summary. The seduction experts always press you to close with a number. "Get her number, bro."
A few times, I decided to skip that and simply tried to schedule a date during the approach. Why? Because I wanted to eliminate texting. Once you take the convo to the phone, you have everything to lose and nothing to gain. Texting does not build attraction - it either preserves it or kills it. Unless she discovers through your social media that you are a high status male, you have nothing to gain from taking the conversation there.
So, just don't ask for her number and schedule a date on the spot.
Benefits
- you are showing outcome independence - by dropping all contact data, you are essentially creating ONE opportunity only. It's either this or nothing. She either comes or not. This is it. No sending of stupid memes, pointless texts...etc. And certainly no social media stalking.
- you are asking her out right away - ultra-directness.
- she will have to reject you or accept you in your presence - she can't hide behind the phone
- you are very likely to remove all girls with low interest from the equation
FAQ
Q: Bro, what if she wants to come but fails to do so due to an accident of some sort?
A: Bro, I have been on more dates that I can count at this point. I have never stood anyone up and have always been on time (no more than 3-5 minutes late) except one single time - it was winter and the whole city was blocked by snow. I took me 30 minutes more to get there.
Chances are she did not come because she didn't want to. Sure, something may have happened, but the likelihood is too small.
Q: Bro, what if she doesn't come precisely because you don't have her contact and cannot hold her accountable?
A: If she doesn't come, it's because she didn't want to. It's as simple as that. Not having your number does not stimulate her to flake. It's all about attraction.
Q: Bro, what if she needs time to figure out when she is free?
A: She doesn't. Does she need five hours to figure out her next appointment at the dentist? No. She gives an hour and a date to the nurse or the dentist right away, and the next session is scheduled. No dentist is waiting more than a few minutes for a patient to figure out when the next appointment will be. It's all about priorities.
I am sick and tired of people rationalizing female behavior with distractions.
Listen, they are not distracted. They see all your messages no more than 3 hours after you send them (exception would be vacations ABROAD). They know when they are free and can schedule a date in a few days even if they have five exams that same week. Meeting someone for 30-60 minutes is always possible if there's desire.
Remember - excuses to meet you = she doesn't like you enough.
