(07-15-2019, 01:18 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: I also had a female friend. We worked together for five years I think. Never had interested in her. She neither. But we kept on talking for a long time after she quit her job.
Eventually, however, I started to see how easy she has it in the dating world because she is a woman.
E.g., She made a Tinder account and in a week had a boyfriend whereas I was struggling to secure dates.
She isn't pretty and not particularly smart, but she could be fun sometimes - I give her that.
On a couple of occasions, I trolled her by inviting her on a non-romantic date. I really had no interest in her. I knew she will refuse - which is why I did it.
A couple of years ago, I dropped her/ghosted her because I didn't need another texting buddy. I could write her today, and she would respond, but I won't.
It's true - friendship between a man and a woman is nonsense. You are either colleagues or a couple.
I have many girls that are friends I don't class it as nonsense . I don't see them in sexual way just pal. I won't be friends with them if find them attractive . Your even interest. Fall on poltatnic love. Sometimes some people just need friend.
One them are even sister to me. I wont waste my time being texting buddy they be my real life friends