(03-06-2019, 12:44 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: The naive will tell you that women value a man's sense of humor. This is not true. It may look like that from the outside, but in reality, women do not care about that.
I have made many women laugh to the point where other people start looking. The same women have later ghosted me and overall rejected me.
They enjoyed my company and clown skills but didn't see enough "value" in me to stick for longer. I wasn't perfectly "tuned" for their liking.
It always comes down to bucks and looks. Everything else is just protein powder.
Being funny can be a very servile behavior if you think about. Like a clown who needs to entertain his audience. Not very manly as I see it.
In addition to that, if a boy/man tries to be funny in order to sneak into a girl's pants, he has essentially a nice guy attitude. He tries to please her. They see through it though. Having some wit may help but not if it's targeted at the girl in order to entertain her.
Honor the situation, not the girl.