Article is lying a bit

[locutus24]

https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/finding-that-significant-other-why-so-difficult/

I stumbled across this cause I'm wasting time surfing the web. It's sugar-coated candy on the dating difficulties. It states that men can't find love and turn to prostitutes. Okay prostitutes makes sense. Why they don't find love? Trust not established in infancy. 

Wait, but what about something more simple like having no sexual market value? It's the big elephant in the room that psychologists and other new age people seem to ignore when it comes to mating. Just blame it on infancy issues. You aren't undateable because you might be ugly and short or are poor. It's just because your mommy mishandled you. 

It's somewhat lying I think.

[TruthSeeker]

https://www.mentalhelp.net/blogs/finding-that-significant-other-why-so-difficult/

I stumbled across this cause I'm wasting time surfing the web. It's sugar-coated candy on the dating difficulties. It states that men can't find love and turn to prostitutes. Okay prostitutes makes sense. Why they don't find love? Trust not established in infancy. 

Wait, but what about something more simple like having no sexual market value? It's the big elephant in the room that psychologists and other new age people seem to ignore when it comes to mating. Just blame it on infancy issues. You aren't undateable because you might be ugly and short or are poor. It's just because your mommy mishandled you. 

It's somewhat lying I think.

It's kinda like blaming natties for being small due to following the wrong programming and not eating the right amount of protein. The mainstream does that all the time. Another comparison would be blaming poor people for not working hard enough.

The average man does not have any SMV. He is like a worker in a poor economy where another guy would be more than willing to replace him.

The world does that to you. They want you to think that with a few magic words she can be yours, but that's nonsense. It's all about attraction. Another problem is that women are totally brainwashed to search for mythical males and then complain that "there are no good men."

[Plato]

I would go as far to say that what programming is to bodybuilding is what pick-up lines are to attraction. What holds the most weight are your genetics for muscle building and genetics for attraction such as facial aesthetics and height.

Of course independent variables never see the light of day when it comes to discussions of the subject. Its really simple why that is, its because you cannot sell them.

I'm not even an ugly or short guy myself and yet I see reality in the dating game for what it is. I say this to be true because I myself have not had great success dating and yet I am not even 'ugly' by societies standards. 

I will not give up though. I do not correlate not giving up with holding onto false hope. I say that because just as there are men like myself who are tired of this pretentiousness (not that I am so innocent myself), there must be women who are also wanting to swim against the current. Perhaps very few I will admit.

I know girl one my best friend who is very happy relationship it a about mindset but yea most people are just brainwashed in general . But I can’t deny nattyorno right love is very impossible in this era .

[locutus24]

It's kinda like blaming natties for being small due to following the wrong programming and not eating the right amount of protein. The mainstream does that all the time. Another comparison would be blaming poor people for not working hard enough.

The average man does not have any SMV. He is like a worker in a poor economy where another guy would be more than willing to replace him.

The world does that to you. They want you to think that with a few magic words she can be yours, but that's nonsense. It's all about attraction. Another problem is that women are totally brainwashed to search for mythical males and then complain that "there are no good men."

Good way of seeing it. 

I guess I should've noted that the psychologist who wrote this article is a woman. It's funny when women write about issues that arise in men. In other words, they really don't have any right to speak about men in regards to men's issues. Feel like bitch-slapping this cunt therapist in the face for making this infested post on the poor men who weren't cuddled enough by their mommy.

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I would go as far to say that what programming is to bodybuilding is what pick-up lines are to attraction. What holds the most weight are your genetics for muscle building and genetics for attraction such as facial aesthetics and height.

Of course independent variables never see the light of day when it comes to discussions of the subject. Its really simple why that is, its because you cannot sell them.

I'm not even an ugly or short guy myself and yet I see reality in the dating game for what it is. I say this to be true because I myself have not had great success dating and yet I am not even 'ugly' by societies standards. 

I will not give up though. I do not correlate not giving up with holding onto false hope. I say that because just as there are men like myself who are tired of this pretentiousness (not that I am so innocent myself), there must be women who are also wanting to swim against the current. Perhaps very few I will admit.

Don't forget steroids! 

I think I'm considered average by my country's standards and also have no luck. Man the anger it causes. 

Eh, those women are going extinct so they are harder to find. Thank you evolution!

[Simple Simon]

Brett wrote:

"independent variables never see the light of day ... Its really simple why that is, its because you cannot sell them."

This. People in the fitness industry, financial advisors, motivational speakers, PUA's etc. Claiming they just want to help the average person, who they used to be themselves, when they are really just trying to sell you snake oil.