Women Send SIGNALS Even When They Don't Like You - explained why

[TruthSeeker]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

[Jonesy]

I agree. The main tactic some of these pick up artists tell you is to act like you don't like her. I read something you wrote about if you message a girl saying "you're cute" you are less likely to get a reply than if you insult her and tell her her photos are terrible. Like you say, in the second instance she is triggered and is asking herself"why doesn't he like me?"

This however is not going to be successful in getting a relationship or sex. If she doesn't like you she doesn't like you. It isn't about you, it's about her. If a man manages to get her attention this way it is because her ego has taken a hit and in order to restore it she needs to feel wanted. Girls usually become friendly and chatty at this point to get the validation she wants from the rebel male who is not playing his part as the adoring fan. Unfortunately, for the said male, as soon as he drops the "you're nothing special" act and reveals his true desires for her (no matter how subtly), she ghosts him and moves on; her ego satisfied, she can tell herself, merrily, that you were a creep playing games.

[Plato]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

my rule is if not dating her why give her compliments . only girls that I am dating your in actually relationship is when I give them all the love and attention than normal . you can tell weather women is interested your just seeking attention. good post

[Jonesy]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

my rule is if not dating her why give her compliments . only girls that I am dating your in actually relationship is when I give them all the love and attention than normal . you can tell weather women is interested your just seeking attention. good post

Yeah, that sounds like a good rule to me. No need to give her compliments before you know who she is and what she is like. Rewarding her for her appearance straight off the bat is not necessary and usually not attractive to her.

Validating her is not the same as attracting her.

[Plato]

yep especial for me someone who has BPD . but then again because of my BPD I can be quiet defense and wait weeks before I show any sings of love and obsession . remember when girl dated me for attention. I told her I was going to set her new car on fire!

like if girl gives compliments back that good sign ! if she doesn't why give her compliment maybe you can compliment her cloths your artist skill or another skill she has rather than her physical appearance.

people do have personalty as well! even through its hard not to just stare at pretty flower because that what we see first. but real man would hold there ground .

[TruthSeeker]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

As far as I am a aware there are only two non-sexual ways to tell if a girl really likes you. The first is to ask her to move somewhere with you, so if you at a bar ask her step outside with you (she has nothing to gain by doing this except from being alone in your company and allowing you an opportunity to escalate).

The second is to touch her. Girls don't like to be touched by guys they don't like. Obviously don't do this in a work environment. Both of these are you being proactive so you will now soon enough if she is just seeking attention. Once she notices you trying to escalate her true colours will come out because she will either reject you or accept you, those are the only possible two outcomes.

Smart.

Whenever you try to take more than the share she has prepared for you, she will hit your hand.

Even on something as Tinder, those who are not interested will ghost you/delete you, right after you ask for their number.

[Loverboy]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

Sometimes I think we don't acknowledge just how little women "need" most men.

They've got a few guys for hot sex, dogs for love, sex toys for pleasure, and - this is where this thread and most guys come in - orbiters for validation. It's not like it is for guys, who reach up when they manage to have sex with a girl. For a woman that's already the baseline. She knows she has you and 100 others like you already to fall back on after she decides to take a long or short term break from the guys she really wanted. What use does she have for you, except as an ego boost and entertainment?

I would like to end on a positive note recommending what you can do, but I don't know what to do about it. The only thing I can recommend is to stop using online dating which just sucks out your energy and self esteem, and try to find a new primary way of meeting women... whatever that could be.

[khrazz]

Women will send you signals even when they are NOT at all interested in you. Flicking her hair, smiling, giggling...etc mean nothing.

Why do they do it?

Because they want to feel validated. She wants you to want her but does NOT want you to approach her in any sense of the word. Basically, she wants a fan. Consequently, she is sending baits here and there. There are married women who do that too. They need the attention and the admiration from the male sex in order to feel a high that their existences do not provide.

One of the greatest feelings for a woman is to feel DESIRED. Thus, she tries to produce it even when she has settled.

Don't over-invest. She may be simply fishing for attention.

They send such signals because women are guided by emotions more than logic. These emotions are then, in return, guided by their brain, and if you go even deeper, you find that they are guided by their menstrual cycle and estrogen levels. A womans desire for men increases as soon as her period approaches, and close to her period they tend to "like" more manly looking men, whereas when their period is over they tend to return to "normal" . This is their nature being on fire in search for a potential mate to procreate.

The validation part, can start from various things. Either hurt ego, or again, their hormonal levels being on fire, which makes them want to be liked, even though they dont wanna have sex.

As you said, dont over invest. And i will add to that, dont put all your eggs in one basket, but put a few in many baskets. That way you are always "unavailable" to her, because  she sees you are not 100% to her, which will make her do 2 things. Either she will move away (so she was never there to begin with) or she will invest in you in order to attract more attention.


Btw, men are also driven by emotions (testosterone) but androgens tend to be more on the logic side than emotion side. This is also the reason why men are more successful into many fields of science, technology etc . The androgens act as a "carrot on a stick" on your back. For example, "i wanna be successful so that i will have more money (climbing social ladder), i will have more expensive things (showing your status) so that i will have plenty of women (the outcome) "

 This happens because androgens increase your ego and the will to dominate other people in order to become the best male in "your pack" so that you will have more options for women to procreate. 

Obviously, all those things, are not something we think... All we think is "i need to get this new BMW sports edition so bad" cause all the rest, are deeply hidden in your skin and DNA.