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Why "Game" And Lifting Weights Are a Scam and Don't Get You Girls 99% Of The Time (le
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Why "Game" And Lifting Weights Are a Scam and Don't Get You Girls 99% Of The Time (let's get to the bottom of it)
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(12-13-2018, 10:50 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: The newest post on the site:

Why "Game" And Lifting Weights Are a Scam and Don't Get You Girls 99% Of The Time (let's get to the bottom of it)

Game to a good looking man is just him being natural. Have you ever seen a good looking guy having to try and be something he's not, it hardly happens. More often than not attractive men assume attraction before the interaction has even begun.

Game to a unattractive man is him trying to make up for his lack of sexual appeal. He is trying to be something he is not, because he knows his personality is not enough. 

So everything the attractive man does and says is almost flawless: He is being himself (not appearing to try hard or seek validation), he is not caring too much about the interaction (he appears non desperate), he never has to worry about what he says because he knows the repercussions are minimal (he can appear more relaxed, confident and manly).

All these things one cannot posses as a unattractive man. They are aware of their insufficiencies looks why's. They therefore try to learn 'game', whatever that is. But all game is, is an attractive man being himself. A fixed variable. 

There is very little you can't say to a woman and get away with when you are an attractive man. Your mindset is, 'I am lusted after, I assume she likes me before we have even spoken, I am out of her league, girls always respond positively to me'. When a man has this mindset, then he truly has 'game' but he can only acquire this mindset by believing what he is saying, and he can only truly believe what he tells himself, if more often than not it is true. More often than not it is true, because he is an attractive man.

Game is to an attractive man like a fish to water. Game is to a unattractive man like a seahorse on land. When you have a mindset of a attractive man, all else is congruent with that mindset. When you are unattractive, all your actions are techniques and all your words are scripts.

A jester cannot attract a queen by amusing or entertaining her. Only a king can attract a queen. More often than not the kings treat the queens like whores because they are kings, not because they are using their 'game' on her.
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Excellent article mate and all is pretty much true
I once went on a date with colleague from work, before that we know each other on "hello" level
Everything was just like you wrote in your article, relaxed conversation, "accidental" looks and contact with feet under table, she alone kissed me in a cheek when we set apart etc etc
I was all super happy and she really was nice but...when I tried to call her to another date...yes you got the point, I tried a couple more times and gave up in the end
Not long after that I heard that she was in fresh relationship with some other guy, probably I was just one of her dating "option" at that time
Yes, she played with my feelings, date me and dumped me just because she could, for fun and free drink
Not all woman are bitches, but many of them are
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(12-14-2018, 06:13 AM)Brett Wrote:
(12-13-2018, 10:50 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: The newest post on the site:

Why "Game" And Lifting Weights Are a Scam and Don't Get You Girls 99% Of The Time (let's get to the bottom of it)

Game to a good looking man is just him being natural. Have you ever seen a good looking guy having to try and be something he's not, it hardly happens. More often than not attractive men assume attraction before the interaction has even begun.

Game to a unattractive man is him trying to make up for his lack of sexual appeal. He is trying to be something he is not, because he knows his personality is not enough. 

So everything the attractive man does and says is almost flawless: He is being himself (not appearing to try hard or seek validation), he is not caring too much about the interaction (he appears non desperate), he never has to worry about what he says because he knows the repercussions are minimal (he can appear more relaxed, confident and manly).

All these things one cannot posses as a unattractive man. They are aware of their insufficiencies looks why's. They therefore try to learn 'game', whatever that is. But all game is, is an attractive man being himself. A fixed variable. 

There is very little you can't say to a woman and get away with when you are an attractive man. Your mindset is, 'I am lusted after, I assume she likes me before we have even spoken, I am out of her league, girls always respond positively to me'. When a man has this mindset, then he truly has 'game' but he can only acquire this mindset by believing what he is saying, and he can only truly believe what he tells himself, if more often than not it is true. More often than not it is true, because he is an attractive man.

Game is to an attractive man like a fish to water. Game is to a unattractive man like a seahorse on land. When you have a mindset of a attractive man, all else is congruent with that mindset. When you are unattractive, all your actions are techniques and all your words are scripts.

A jester cannot attract a queen by amusing or entertaining her. Only a king can attract a queen. More often than not the kings treat the queens like whores because they are kings, not because they are using their 'game' on her.

Very well said.

(12-14-2018, 07:56 AM)Navigator Wrote: Excellent article mate and all is pretty much true
I once went on a date with colleague from work, before that we know each other on "hello" level
Everything was just like you wrote in your article, relaxed conversation, "accidental" looks and contact with feet under table, she alone kissed me in a cheek when we set apart etc etc
I was all super happy and she really was nice but...when I tried to call her to another date...yes you got the point, I tried a couple more times and gave up in the end
Not long after that I heard that she was in fresh relationship with some other guy, probably I was just one of her dating "option" at that time
Yes, she played with my feelings, date me and dumped me just because she could, for fun and free drink
Not all woman are bitches, but many of them are

Women have inconsistent behavior. 180 degrees turns are to be expected.
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When you say you have approached lots of women in the article, how did you end up deciding to do so? How did you get over the fear of rejection and decide that this was the path to take? Do you still approach girls in the same way? Or do you regret doing so and has rejection hurt your confidence? If you still approach girls you like do you think it is not completely futile?
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(12-21-2018, 03:56 PM)Jonesy Wrote: When you say you have approached lots of women in the article, how did you end up deciding to do so? How did you get over the fear of rejection and decide that this was the path to take? Do you still approach girls in the same way? Or do you regret doing so and has rejection hurt your confidence? If you still approach girls you like do you think it is not completely futile?

1. I decided to do it because everything else wasn't working for me - especially online dating. The goal was to go old school.

2. It was difficult and took time, but I could be very resilient if I want to. I just started slow. It took me months to progress.

3. I do, but not in the same numbers. Sometimes I do it just to troll them.

4. Rejection hurt and built my confidence at the same time. I have learned a lot about the dynamics between men and women.

At one moment, I could approach any woman. Today, I can't. I lost some of that "top end strength", but mostly I lost motivation and hope.

Having said that, I definitely noticed a very negative effect on my mindset. Like a burden. The fatigue was high too. Eventually, you just get fed up with all of it. You see how women are almost robots. They all respond the same way to my lines. Their behavior is interchangeable - the variation is small.

5. Is it futile?

Honestly, probably yes. I got dates with some women that I consider pretty, but the experience was not that pleasant. They all treated me as if I had stolen their dog or something, like I had something to prove to them. This is how things are for men these days - you are supposed to feel lucky that you are even breathing in her presence.

If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

I would be happy to help with my experience.
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Cool. Cheers for the reply. I can understand the burden thing. When I stopped caring about impressing girls at clubs/bars I found I could enjoy the night more with my mates. I had no high expectations for the evening and so I had no disappointments.
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I agree most women theses days are bad . here my experience with women through at school use women to be ok with them . ill be honest I was at the bottom really at school . but people like my humor and I use to have girls who were like 7/10 or 6/10 which for me was good because I was only 7 myself and they were enough for me. the facebook was not as popular. facebook was in semi mod . however after I left school did notice change in women behavior. funny enough I was never interested in women Intel age 18 . but did seem to find that most women now act like poplar bitch even through she is 4/10 . my luck with women now is not super great , I can get dates to point . and tbh I met some non toxic women most them come from different back ground so I think that might been it . the best women are the ones that dont use social media . tbh I love women I never hated,them but hate the way that women are treating men there no need . I did think different scoial area plays role in getting a girl were I am from everyone girl is chave but when I got somewhere else my luck changes , you know hobbies and personality does play role . it just if super good looking all type women will throw them self on you . tbh I not really fuzzy with women don't think most men are. I just want girl with mind set like mine . I remember what nattyornot said to me some people are just lucky in love and its shame because we all could have this . I am sure through. there are bad men out there as well . I think it good to try not think everyone is same because there are different people out there no matter what the Agender do. they will never change there mind . what I hate is people say you cant be nice to women lol you can but don't be door matt like you can respect yourself and your girl . but it makes sense how bad boy / psychopathic would attract lot's of women . men back in the day had no oppression with the dating scene so they could act like men . but now most men now, even question there Gender I am like wtf . also BTW I was one those stupid guys who once did question there gender . I use to be very heavy brainwashed

I think its normal for women to be attracted to you just for physical looks what not normal are there inflated ego's
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(12-25-2018, 06:12 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote:
(12-21-2018, 03:56 PM)Jonesy Wrote: When you say you have approached lots of women in the article, how did you end up deciding to do so? How did you get over the fear of rejection and decide that this was the path to take? Do you still approach girls in the same way? Or do you regret doing so and has rejection hurt your confidence? If you still approach girls you like do you think it is not completely futile?

1. I decided to do it because everything else wasn't working for me - especially online dating. The goal was to go old school.

2. It was difficult and took time, but I could be very resilient if I want to. I just started slow. It took me months to progress.

3. I do, but not in the same numbers. Sometimes I do it just to troll them.

4. Rejection hurt and built my confidence at the same time. I have learned a lot about the dynamics between men and women.

At one moment, I could approach any woman. Today, I can't. I lost some of that "top end strength", but mostly I lost motivation and hope.

Having said that, I definitely noticed a very negative effect on my mindset. Like a burden. The fatigue was high too. Eventually, you just get fed up with all of it. You see how women are almost robots. They all respond the same way to my lines. Their behavior is interchangeable - the variation is small.

5. Is it futile?

Honestly, probably yes. I got dates with some women that I consider pretty, but the experience was not that pleasant. They all treated me as if I had stolen their dog or something, like I had something to prove to them. This is how things are for men these days - you are supposed to feel lucky that you are even breathing in her presence.

If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

I would be happy to help with my experience.
So you believe that things were better back in the day?
Is English your second language? Not saying you are bad, you are great writer, but from posts over the years it seemed like you are from eastern Europe. Assuming thats true, what are women like in your home country?  If Im wrong, sorry for guessing  Tongue
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(12-25-2018, 06:00 PM)The Light Among Darkness Wrote:
(12-25-2018, 06:12 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote:
(12-21-2018, 03:56 PM)Jonesy Wrote: When you say you have approached lots of women in the article, how did you end up deciding to do so? How did you get over the fear of rejection and decide that this was the path to take? Do you still approach girls in the same way? Or do you regret doing so and has rejection hurt your confidence? If you still approach girls you like do you think it is not completely futile?

1. I decided to do it because everything else wasn't working for me - especially online dating. The goal was to go old school.

2. It was difficult and took time, but I could be very resilient if I want to. I just started slow. It took me months to progress.

3. I do, but not in the same numbers. Sometimes I do it just to troll them.

4. Rejection hurt and built my confidence at the same time. I have learned a lot about the dynamics between men and women.

At one moment, I could approach any woman. Today, I can't. I lost some of that "top end strength", but mostly I lost motivation and hope.

Having said that, I definitely noticed a very negative effect on my mindset. Like a burden. The fatigue was high too. Eventually, you just get fed up with all of it. You see how women are almost robots. They all respond the same way to my lines. Their behavior is interchangeable - the variation is small.

5. Is it futile?

Honestly, probably yes. I got dates with some women that I consider pretty, but the experience was not that pleasant. They all treated me as if I had stolen their dog or something, like I had something to prove to them. This is how things are for men these days - you are supposed to feel lucky that you are even breathing in her presence.

If you have any other questions, feel free to ask.

I would be happy to help with my experience.
So you believe that things were better back in the day?
Is English your second language? Not saying you are bad, you are great writer, but from posts over the years it seemed like you are from eastern Europe. Assuming thats true, what are women like in your home country?  If Im wrong, sorry for guessing  Tongue

na I am English, I have type dyslexia were cant hear words in my head your understand words . I think back in the day ego was just little less that's all  so men were not as oppress and men were not sexually depress . tbh that was nicest compliment I got . It fine, it human nature to judge
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