(08-23-2021, 02:54 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: It's because men don't have any leverage.
Exactly, but as we know, it's not like this for everyone.
Ive said this before but i will never forget standing on the balcony of "M", who i was not even attracted to, and observing her neighbor "the Celsius Guy" outside with one of his attractive girls. M said in a languid tone that Celsius Guy was "bringing home a new woman every day", and then, she implied with her jaded and apathetic voice that she didnt regard it highly (which sounded like it was because of her own experience). I said that i saw the same girl walking to him as i saw the other day, and she said "sometimes he brings the same ones over again". Meanwhile i also felt that i was standing here with a woman i was not even attracted to, and that's all i could manage, while Celsius was in her words "bringing home a new woman [like that one] every day". The world of difference you could so casually observe in that moment felt so incredible and awe-inspiring, like watching living cells through a microscope, or a really beautiful sky.
The reason why i write this story in particular is because it's such a good companion to your point 14 in this article, and whenever i think of one i think of the other. I wish you could hear the tone M speaked about Celsius with, because it fits so perfectly with the point #14. Also, i want to say that the imagination that "women arent happy" doesnt make me feel concern, it makes me feel a peaceful sense of karmic satisfaction.