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Taking a Brake From Women, Texting...etc.
#1
I lived through yet another summer of the same old dating nonsense.

Here's what happened:

1. Spammed a ton of women on social media. Got some dates. Got ghosted. Saw one of the women that allegedly really liked me on a date with another guy two days later. Btw she's an alleged Christian woman. (To be honest, she is in a Christian sect rather than a real Christian.)

2. Tons of pointless texting. 

3. The boyfriends of some women started writing me insults and threats. I played it cool and even invited one guy to come meet if he's so tough. He never replied.

4. Tons of women who are always "busy": travel, exams, I don't know what. 

I started talking with one woman in the beginning of the summer. She told me: "Can't meet. I have rehearsals from 9 to 22." Yeah, right, bitch.

5. I cold approached around 300 women for the good old times. Got 5 numbers and 6 facebooks. Only one of the women responded. She seemed really interested. When I asked her out, she said I'm married. 

That woman acted flirty as hell when we met. I guess she just wanted the attention. I responded: "Don't write me anymore then." She got furious and blocked me.



6. One woman that I was on a date with in February texted me in August. I asked her out again. She said "maybe in September. I'm traveling."

Well, fuck that, to be honest. 

I'm done at this point. 

What gets you is the repetitive pattern. You can't talk to so many women without experiencing some changes in you. 

Do you know how many times I see women on a street that I've talked to? I don't remember their names, but I do remember them. 

At this point, that's all I can do. I don't want to text anyone nor try.

I did my trying. 

It is what it is and there's that.
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#2
I don't understand why you've still been trying after all you've written about this topic over the past few years. Clearly the mainstream-approved dating methods (online dating, texting, cold approaching, etc.) don't work, but hasn't that been obvious for a long time? You said it yourself: modern dating is a scam. Just live your life and if a relationship happens, then great, but if not, don't worry about it.
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#3
(08-22-2021, 02:35 PM)lemmings Wrote: I don't understand why you've still been trying after all you've written about this topic over the past few years. Clearly the mainstream-approved dating methods (online dating, texting, cold approaching, etc.) don't work, but hasn't that been obvious for a long time? You said it yourself: modern dating is a scam. Just live your life and if a relationship happens, then great, but if not, don't worry about it.

Because never in my life has something come out of nothing. And I don't know any other methods. I also have one more reason, but it's not logical so I won't list it.
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#4
(08-22-2021, 07:31 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: I also have one more reason, but it's not logical so I won't list it.

I would guess that this is your main reason for still trying. Fair enough: matters of the heart never are logical. I won’t try to change your mind.

In fairness, I haven’t been trying with women for the past year or so, and nothing has happened, so maybe it’s time for me to start trying again. I just feel like every avenue there is for meeting women these days has massive drawbacks, so I wouldn’t know where to start.
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#5
(08-23-2021, 09:45 AM)lemmings Wrote: I would guess that this is your main reason for still trying. Fair enough: matters of the heart never are logical. I won’t try to change your mind.

In fairness, I haven’t been trying with women for the past year or so, and nothing has happened, so maybe it’s time for me to start trying again. I just feel like every avenue there is for meeting women these days has massive drawbacks, so I wouldn’t know where to start.

It's because men don't have any leverage.
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#6
Yeah, I gave online dating a go again. They unmatched, when I send them a message.

All vaccinated women too.

I truly believe women are more likely narcissistic by nature. well, this is what I see from my experience.
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#7
(08-24-2021, 11:54 AM)Plato Wrote: Yeah, I gave online dating a go again. They unmatched, when I send them a message.

All vaccinated women too.

I truly believe women are more likely narcissistic by nature. well, this is what I see from my experience.

How do you know they're vaccinated?
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#8
(08-24-2021, 12:55 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: How do you know they're vaccinated?

I asked. And they tell me. 

On the dating site they have option to say weather or not you're vaccinated.  

Plus, I put down, not looking for vaccinated women. 

Many ask me questions like, "what's your beef with the vaccine?."

There answer tell me lot about them. So far, most people take the vaccine do to fear and Social acceptance. 

I have chats with these women, and then drop the question.

Some call me selfish. "Then I reply with ironic comeback." depends on my mood of course.

I feel some unmatched me do to my profile, or just for other variable reasons.
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#9
(08-24-2021, 01:46 PM)Plato Wrote: I asked. And they tell me. 

On the dating site they have option to say weather or not you're vaccinated.  

Plus, I put down, not looking for vaccinated women. 

Many ask me questions like, "what's your beef with the vaccine?."

There answer tell me lot about them. So far, most people take the vaccine do to fear and Social acceptance. 

I have chats with these women, and then drop the question.

Some call me selfish. "Then I reply with ironic comeback." depends on my mood of course.

I feel some unmatched me do to my profile, or just for other variable reasons.

Many years ago, I put "no fat women" in my Tinder bio and got banned in one day.
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#10
(08-24-2021, 06:13 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: Many years ago, I put "no fat women" in my Tinder bio and got banned in one day.

lol.
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