incel??

[Plato]

It's because of the Isla Vista killings that put incel on the radar. I never even heard about it prior to that, but got a shit load of FB posts on it by several women and some men. It only takes "one" to stereotype any group of people as "exactly alike" who may share "some" similarities, but the reality is we're not all copies of one another. I'd say vague stereotypes exist, but not complete stereotypes.

I did read some subreddits with incel in the titles. One trait that kept coming up was introversion or extreme introversion. I can relate as I'm more introverted than extroverted. At moment I'm friendless, but in past I've had some quick friendships that came and went like flies. Last close friend I had was about 3 years ago and we no longer speak to one another. 

And I will admit that introversion does not always help in life. It can backfire when it comes to anything social. I hear a lot of men and women applaud introversion (inspiration porn) and while it does have some good qualities, overall I'd say it's better to be somewhat more extroverted than introverted. It's all about marketing yourself whether for a job or date. Hence, there is probably a connection being made between "quiet introverts" and "incel psychopaths." Great! :/

I like my own space so I can think and do art . But love to social I just like to be in control and hang out with people I love . If not I don’t waste my time. I like to do other things than drink.