(03-07-2019, 02:35 PM)locutus24 Wrote: What if the joke is on the woman and it's a little cruel, but somehow funny? Harassment/restraining order or bitch slap to face? Or would she like the feeling of being degraded mentally by being the joke itself?
Hard to tell. The situation you describe is quite general.
Some kind of nagging might work if your looks are okay, the situation is right (party or so, not a corporate environment), and the girl plays along (if she does she likes you anyway). Could be creepy though if you go too harsh here while ignoring her lack of interest, if you put too much effort into it (you trying to please her), or if your intentions become too obvious to her.
I'm definitely not an expert on women (who is) but that's what my own experience tells me.

