10-19-2018, 07:51 AM
Wouldn't quantifying one's self worth be trapping yourself within the "system"? And by system I mean the one where you find the cheaters and beaters, potentially nasty partners that they themselves have been trapped in same system of "I can't find anyone who is loyal or on my level".
What if we were to break free form the confines of this type of "I'm this number out of ten, in terms of XYZ" thinking? Perhaps there is a more organic method of meeting that special someone. Perhaps that cute chick that shares the same hobby as you in your local rowing club, or the extra thicc cosplayer you clicked with at the anime convention, might be interested in having a low pressure date with you. Nothing spells chemistry better than having similar reagents (hobbies etc)
Maybe, for a different outcome, it's time to try a different method
What if we were to break free form the confines of this type of "I'm this number out of ten, in terms of XYZ" thinking? Perhaps there is a more organic method of meeting that special someone. Perhaps that cute chick that shares the same hobby as you in your local rowing club, or the extra thicc cosplayer you clicked with at the anime convention, might be interested in having a low pressure date with you. Nothing spells chemistry better than having similar reagents (hobbies etc)
Maybe, for a different outcome, it's time to try a different method