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The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-05-2019
Occasionally, you will meet the busy bitch.
She is either studying, writing her master thesis, working or whatever. She is replying to your messages within days with "Hey. I'm sorry..." Or maybe not replying at all.
When you ask her when are you free, the answer is "not this week".
Guess, what?
That's one lying bitch right there.
Golden rule: A woman that is NOT willing to go out of her habits at ALL to meet you is wasting your time and leading you on.
After the week has passed. she will be busy again and again and again until the end of times.
But here's the deal.
She is not lying even though she is.
She is indeed busy - but only for you.
If you were more attractive, she would be chasing you.
Busy is a scam.
How long can you realistically work in a day?
How long can you study in a day?
She is keeping you in the reserves while chasing some other guy. Believe me.
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Here's a story from my experience:
I met a woman that imo was really my type. But she was replying to my messages super slowly - a few days. Meanwhile, she was constantly online.
Of course, I asked her out. She said: "I am busy this and next week. Since I was in a patient mode, I did not react. But the time passed, and I asked her out again on a Thursday. She said she is busy the entire weekend and the following 1-2 months because she is writing her master thesis.
Yeah. But in her messages she was constantly saying: "I am sorry that I reply so late..." and yet she never stopped doing it.
I blocked her after telling her to go fuck herself. Felt good. I did it while she was writing another lie - this is the best way to block a woman - while she is fabricating another fairy tale.
Another story:
A girl had exams, allegedly. We were supposed to meet after that. I saw her with another guy while she was "busy".
If she is not available within a week (max), she will never be.
At least, that's my view. What's yours?
RE: The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-06-2019
30-40 minutes is nothing. Some women travel to different states to meet a guy.
Another problem with postponing so much is that the gap kills the spark. 1-2 months from now, the girl that made you lose sleep today will be incapable of triggering the same sensation.
The first girl that I told you about (the one writing the thesis) created a nasty feeling inside of me even though at first I really liked her. I literally felt kinda sick from her games. And she turned from cute into annoying because of those games.
But in the end, she did succeed - she broke me because I insulted her (games worked) and then blocked her.
RE: The Busy Bitch - Plato - 09-06-2019
Best just to say your peace your not even that!just block the bitch . Don't let them insult you and waste your time. One day I cold approach she said yes I set a date . And she said after work is fine, at 2pm . Then I called her 3 times 30 minutes roll so i text ,I get answer I am working I said "when you finish" she said I don't know . Like XD how do you not know basically she change her mind but couldn't tell me . What a bitch so I blocked her and said guess you cant be honest to people.
RE: The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-06-2019
(09-06-2019, 09:41 AM)Plato Wrote: Best just to say your peace your not even that!just block the bitch . Don't let them insult you and waste your time. One day I cold approach she said yes I set a date . And she said after work is fine, at 2pm . Then I called her 3 times 30 minutes roll so i text ,I get answer I am working I said "when you finish" she said I don't know . Like XD how do you not know basically she change her mind but couldn't tell me . What a bitch so I blocked her and said guess you cant be honest to people.
Makes you wonder how do women set dentist and work appointments while managing such busy and quickly changing schedules?
All lies.
In reality, they have time to meet you five times a week if they wanted to.
They just don't want to. They would rather stick to their routine full of lies and dopamine induced by cheap activities.
RE: The Busy Bitch - Plato - 09-06-2019
(09-06-2019, 11:28 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote: Makes you wonder how do women set dentist and work appointments while managing such busy and quickly changing schedules?
All lies.
In reality, they have time to meet you five times a week if they wanted to.
They just don't want to. They would rather stick to their routine full of lies and dopamine induced by cheap activities.
Yea because it gives them the dream of something better might happen but it doesn't
RE: The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-07-2019
(09-06-2019, 12:44 PM)Plato Wrote: Yea because it gives them the dream of something better might happen but it doesn't
But does it really come?
I used to believe that women always reject me for another guy, but I am started to think that most reject a man for the potential of meeting a better guy rather than someone they already know.
Before you know it, they are hitting the "wall" without better prospects at their door.
I have talked to many women in their 30s - they are very delusional, still.
RE: The Busy Bitch - Plato - 09-07-2019
(09-07-2019, 11:17 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote: But does it really come?That what am saying they are dreaming of non existing sexy man . like I say it never comes they settle . some don' even do that . some are lucky and not all delusional. Your they go for someone way attractive than them and there happy with that. Some which are rare settle with same level . and for 1 % for someone less attractive then them . what am saying I know lots 3 and 5 out of 10 they complement me saying wow your super attractive you know that! Which I don't think am that good just above average but what saying they all found love and am single . there cards are worse than mine., guess luck plays role in dating as well . I cant deny they found true love your well they look happy . I know hey might not be happy because don't know what goes on but meh what am saying the black bill force seem to make me single. I blame my look 's to some degree not in attractive way but my androgynous and I look very young for my age reason. but even then people like that find someone . yes being more attractive help but I think am attractive enough for love for sure I done all that I can I think . I even told my personality is cool and nice which still think that plays role to some degree it like icing on cake. And looks is the cake that you see first .
I used to believe that women always reject me for another guy, but I am started to think that most reject a man for the potential of meeting a better guy rather than someone they already know.
Before you know it, they are hitting the "wall" without better prospects at their door.
I have talked to many women in their 30s - they are very delusional, still.
RE: The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-08-2019
Funny:
I actually told my mother about the first girl - the one writing a thesis and replying late.
You know what my mother said: "You were in the reserves if she took days to reply. You should have never even answered."
Pretty "red pilled" for a 60-year-old woman.
RE: The Busy Bitch - TruthSeeker - 09-08-2019
(09-08-2019, 05:30 AM)Brett Wrote: My mom is very blue pilled.
She use to always tell me growing up that "manners make a man". It was like her favourite line.
Funny though that she had two kids with a man (my father) who she always says behaves like a pig and has no manners. She also had kids late - in her early 30's. One of the things she also says alot to me is "don't behave like your father".
Guess thats the ultimate red pill seeing the truth before your eyes.
Ironically, I noticed the same too. My father also behaved like a pig. I was 12 when he started running away from the family. He would got out early and would return late. Sometimes he won't even come home. He won't pick up his phone the entire day. We never new where he was. I would hear my mother cry the entire night.
He never bought her anything for her birthday either. The same for my birthdays. I received only one present from him in my entire life.
And yet they are still together, although my mother wanted to divorce him at one point.
Women are indeed attracted to some nonsense like that.
When they were a new couple (they married after a month or two of dating), they went for a short trip and had a fight. My father left her in the town they were completely alone without telling her where he was going.
But none of this was planned. It's just who he is.
RE: The Busy Bitch - khrazz - 09-08-2019
(09-05-2019, 09:09 PM)TruthSeeker Wrote: Occasionally, you will meet the busy bitch.
She is either studying, writing her master thesis, working or whatever. She is replying to your messages within days with "Hey. I'm sorry..." Or maybe not replying at all.
When you ask her when are you free, the answer is "not this week".
Guess, what?
That's one lying bitch right there.
Golden rule: A woman that is NOT willing to go out of her habits at ALL to meet you is wasting your time and leading you on.
After the week has passed. she will be busy again and again and again until the end of times.
But here's the deal.
She is not lying even though she is.
She is indeed busy - but only for you.
If you were more attractive, she would be chasing you.
Busy is a scam.
How long can you realistically work in a day?
How long can you study in a day?
She is keeping you in the reserves while chasing some other guy. Believe me.
-----------------------------------------------
Here's a story from my experience:
I met a woman that imo was really my type. But she was replying to my messages super slowly - a few days. Meanwhile, she was constantly online.
Of course, I asked her out. She said: "I am busy this and next week. Since I was in a patient mode, I did not react. But the time passed, and I asked her out again on a Thursday. She said she is busy the entire weekend and the following 1-2 months because she is writing her master thesis.
Yeah. But in her messages she was constantly saying: "I am sorry that I reply so late..." and yet she never stopped doing it.
I blocked her after telling her to go fuck herself. Felt good. I did it while she was writing another lie - this is the best way to block a woman - while she is fabricating another fairy tale.
Another story:
A girl had exams, allegedly. We were supposed to meet after that. I saw her with another guy while she was "busy".
If she is not available within a week (max), she will never be.
At least, that's my view. What's yours?
A quick and easy way to screen if she really wants to meet you but he busy scedule does not allow her a lot of free time to hang around, is suggest you both meet at a coffee shop/bar/place near her residence. However, in order for this to work , you need to have some kind of communication before that, because you may come off as creepy or pushy.
Now you may say "why waste my time and money for something that most likely is not gonna work"? To that i would say, you actually win more by doing this, rather than doing nothing. Let me elaborate, by doing this, you are "screening"her intentions on meeting you (or not). If she says yes, then you meet her in person, even for a brief amount of time, and you can then see how you can work this out. If she says no, and does not seem to counterpropose your offer, then she is most likely not sexually available and you need to move on (not saying you have to block her, just move on, dont feed her ego by blocking her )
Aside from screening her, you are freeing yourself of constant mental masturbation and thought pattern on why she is busy. You get an answer, either yes or no. And those are 2 firm words in which your mind can find a solution on. By being on "hold" your mind is always anticipating something and you eventually get drained and demotivated. Why put yourself up into such misery?
Even the busiest person in the world, can find free time to meet someone he wants to meet, especially if its near his neighborhood. Anything she says as an excuse as to why she cant, even to such an offer, is just that... an excuse.