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Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - TruthSeeker - 07-20-2019
In the past, due to the lack of options (who has enough?), I've given women way too many chances.
I've been left on seen, lied to, lead on...etc.
What was my reasoning for behaving this way? Couldn't I see the "red flags"? Couldn't I read between the lines?
Of course, I could. But when you don't have much, you can't do much. So, I would keep pushing for dates and waiting despite being disrespected. Sometimes, I would just be curious to see how things unfold.
Well, my conclusion is that once they have shown bad attitude towards you - it never gets better. It's wiser to just cut your losses right away. In fact, I have become extremely non-explanatory in my behavior. I no longer have tolerance.
E.g., I was talking to a woman on messenger yesterday. She left me on seen somewhere in the afternoon. Of course, she'd logged on many times since then. This morning I just blocked her without writing anything to her. Chances are she won't even notice. But it's not about her - it's about moving on without unnecessary investment.
A woman's behavior towards you rarely if ever improves over time. Unless you mutate into a model or become very rich, it only gets worse.
If she is willing to behave negatively now, she will do so increasingly in the future.
If your intuition is telling you that a woman has no interest in you, you are probably right.
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - Loverboy - 07-20-2019
Time has taught me that a sense of dignity is necessary to enjoy both pussy itself and the pursuit of it. Chasing through bad behavior, or dumpster diving, will leave you without feeling dignity. At that point you will have sacrificed what you needed, to get what you thought you wanted. It's a dead end.
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - TruthSeeker - 07-20-2019
(07-20-2019, 02:12 PM)Loverboy Wrote: Time has taught me that a sense of dignity is necessary to enjoy both pussy itself and the pursuit of it. Chasing through bad behavior, or dumpster diving, will leave you without feeling dignity. At that point you will have sacrificed what you needed, to get what you thought you wanted. It's a dead end.
Yes. And no matter how good she seems to be. No matter what she promises. No matter what she says.
If she doesn't back it with actions, she deserves the door.
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - Greywolf - 07-23-2019
I learned this the hard way with my last relationship. I finally gave her the door shortly before our 3rd year anniversary. I would have saved myself a lot of money, headaches, and heart aches had I just set my foot down in the beginning. It helps to know other men feel this way. It's better to be single than in a bad relationship.
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - TruthSeeker - 08-04-2019
(07-23-2019, 04:59 PM)Greywolf Wrote: I learned this the hard way with my last relationship. I finally gave her the door shortly before our 3rd year anniversary. I would have saved myself a lot of money, headaches, and heart aches had I just set my foot down in the beginning. It helps to know other men feel this way. It's better to be single than in a bad relationship.
People don't really change. If she was bad towards you in the beginning, that hate will only grow.
It's sad but it is what it is.
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - Plato - 08-04-2019
(08-04-2019, 03:03 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote: People don't really change. If she was bad towards you in the beginning, that hate will only grow.
It's sad but it is what it is.
I agree most people don't change something have to happen to change character, the problem is women environment is harsh and it keep them in loop . but who know's some might see the light even if they chance is slim . that why best communicate if she being stubborn then drop her .
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - TruthSeeker - 08-05-2019
(08-04-2019, 09:46 AM)Plato Wrote: I agree most people don't change something have to happen to change character, the problem is women environment is harsh and it keep them in loop . but who know's some might see the light even if they chance is slim . that why best communicate if she being stubborn then drop her .
Women spend their 20s chasing pipe dreams. Then they wonder - "where have all the good men gone?"
RE: Don't let her get away with bad behaviour - Plato - 08-05-2019
(08-05-2019, 04:45 AM)TruthSeeker Wrote: Women spend their 20s chasing pipe dreams. Then they wonder - "where have all the good men gone?"
well I do relaise women chase after silly thing's but I know people who are happy so try not to think too much about it I dont want to be misogynistic. like get that modern women are the new type of women but I simply don't hate them . I just hate bad women behavior women is suppose to support her man .