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I broke up with my girlfriend. At first it was painful, but I notice, When you break up and didn't have the talk about why and what happened it can lead you lost. Once we had the talk in a sense,we agreed we both love each other, but it was not meant to be. Still miss her, but I also feel sense of spiritual acceptan-ces. I respect her decision to leave, because she might end up hurting me which I respect. However, once someone leaves me; I'll never accept them back.

First time I have ever had a good end of a relationship. I guess, maybe people just dump or broke up quite aggressively. In the past people have done it. But they have done it in horrible ways. Now I know that real relationship can end even on good terms. Besides relationship  is just an adventure, unless you get married or made an oath then that's a different story.
It must hurt. Break ups are never easy.

Rather now than later though when you are more attached to her.

I had a fight with my girlfriend this weekend but we worked through it. Funny how life works, just after the fight a couple days later one of her ex boyfriends sent her a message. 

Try keep yourself busy to keep your mind off her.
(03-09-2021, 05:27 AM)Brett Wrote: [ -> ]It must hurt. Break ups are never easy.

Rather now than later though when you are more attached to her.

I had a fight with my girlfriend this weekend but we worked through it. Funny how life works, just after the fight a couple days later one of her ex boyfriends sent her a message. 

Try keep yourself busy to keep your mind off her.

Well, I have now ended up blocking her. In a sense; there is no need to stay friends because my memories keep popping up. Also, the hatred will just grow and grow, until I start thinking about all the words she said, all the actions and kindness she showed. Thanks, I am trying to.

"Rather now than later though when you are more attached to her."  Perhaps, but I do think she come into my life for a reason.  I learned a lot.
Nah fuck it. If he/she broke up with you just leave and never say a single shit. I feel better doing that than having those BS closure.
(03-17-2021, 12:09 PM)Rickley Wrote: [ -> ]Nah fuck it. If he/she broke up with you just leave and never say a single shit. I feel better doing that than having those BS closure.
Ah, I agree. But to be fair, it was more on the neutral side. It doesn't matter anyway. I bet she would want me back one day, oh well. Too bad.
(03-18-2021, 11:41 AM)Plato Wrote: [ -> ]Ah, I agree. But to be fair, it was more on the neutral side. It doesn't matter anyway. I bet she would want me back one day, oh well. Too bad.

She probably will. 

Watch the movie - Swingers. While I don't support the hook-up culture, the underlying story is about a guy who just went through a break-up and how he deals with it, and he is heart broken for a long time.
(03-19-2021, 07:05 AM)Brett Wrote: [ -> ]She probably will. 

Watch the movie - Swingers. While I don't support the hook-up culture, the underlying story is about a guy who just went through a break-up and how he deals with it, and he is heart broken for a long time.

Thanks, I will look into it. I think, as a man, it's best to never accept someone that breaks your heart once. Paradoxically women love what they can't have. Tbh What's funny lot people say it's women that men die for, but I think it's bigger than that it's a dream. They want the dream. I would say I am already broke, a girl can't destroy what is all ready broken.